Should I believe him?
Mel asked:
My boyfriend of three years and I are in the process of overcoming a long-term online affair that he had. It ended over six months ago. I’m probably much more jealous now than I should be, so I tend to get upset too easily over anything that involves another woman. Here’s the situation: my boyfriend has just begun one-on-one scuba diving lessons with a woman instructor. I’m jealous of the time they spend together, but he tries to be understanding of that fact. However, yesterday, he went to the dive shop (which is in another town) to get equipment. I made a playful comment about him “going to see her” and he insisted he was just going to the shop and she would not be there. However, last night, I saw on his phone that he had called her. When I asked if he had seen or talked to her, he said no. I finally confessed that I saw his phone and he then told me that he had seen her and had called her to meet him there, but that he can’t tell me those things because I’m too jealous.
Does this sound believable to you, or should I be worried?
My boyfriend of three years and I are in the process of overcoming a long-term online affair that he had. It ended over six months ago. I’m probably much more jealous now than I should be, so I tend to get upset too easily over anything that involves another woman. Here’s the situation: my boyfriend has just begun one-on-one scuba diving lessons with a woman instructor. I’m jealous of the time they spend together, but he tries to be understanding of that fact. However, yesterday, he went to the dive shop (which is in another town) to get equipment. I made a playful comment about him “going to see her” and he insisted he was just going to the shop and she would not be there. However, last night, I saw on his phone that he had called her. When I asked if he had seen or talked to her, he said no. I finally confessed that I saw his phone and he then told me that he had seen her and had called her to meet him there, but that he can’t tell me those things because I’m too jealous.
Does this sound believable to you, or should I be worried?
